You’ve felt the weight of loneliness creeping in during quiet nights or weekends with no plans, when everyone around you seems to be in a relationship, and you’re left wondering, “When will it be my turn?” You might have battled feelings of inadequacy, scrolling through social media, comparing your life to seemingly perfect couples, and asking yourself, “What’s wrong with me?”
If you've faced heartbreak, and the pain still lingers, leaving you unsure about trusting again, this book is for you. You may have experienced that gut-wrenching moment when a relationship ended, and you felt lost, wondering how to pick up the pieces and move forward. You’re not alone in your struggle to heal from past hurts and questioning whether you’ll ever be truly ready to love again. If you’ve had moments where you think God doesn’t hear your prayers, or that maybe you’re asking for too much by desiring a Godly relationship that complements your calling, you’re in good company.
Maybe you've felt the pull to settle, accepting less than what you deserve because you’re exhausted from waiting. Or perhaps you’ve wrestled with the longing for a relationship but find yourself grappling with the idea of putting God first, trusting His timing, and discovering the beauty in your season of singleness. You feel like God is telling you to wait on Him, but you don’t truly know what that looks like. How do you wait well?
Perhaps you clicked on that website you shouldn’t have again, or you can’t imagine opening up to someone about your past. You might count yourself out because you genuinely believe your mistakes disqualify you from the relationship of your dreams.
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the questions swirling in your mind—“Is a relationship supposed to be this hard?”
“Why are we fighting so much?”
“God, I fell again—how will I break free from this?”
“I found myself looking at my ex’s page again; will I ever get over them?”
or “What if I never find someone who truly understands me?”*
—this eBook is a safe space for you.
Have you grappled with fears of intimacy, worried that opening up to someone might expose your vulnerabilities? Are you trying to deepen your relationship with God but feel like you're just going through the motions? If your engagement season has been particularly challenging, filled with misunderstandings and stress, you’re not alone in those feelings. You may wonder if you're even ready for marriage, or if you’ve got it all wrong.
Within these pages, you’ll find a heartfelt journey that speaks to the struggles you face, along with practical wisdom to help you navigate your path. You’ll uncover the tools to embrace your singleness, heal from the past, and prepare your heart for the love you deserve. This isn’t just a guide; it’s a conversation between friends because truly, I’VE BEEN there. I was single for 7 years, battled through everything above, and I KNOW how lonely it can feel to face these challenges, wondering if you’re the only one.
We’ll walk this journey together, reminding you that you are cherished, you are worthy, and your story is still being written. The best is yet to come, BESTIE. I LOVE YOU, and so does GOD! :)
